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caregiver-coordination
GitHub协助协调多 helpers 照顾年迈或患病家人。生成照护地图、轮换表及备份规则、信息档案和家庭会议议程，明确分工与升级机制，防止责任集中，实现公平可持续的照护安排。
Trigger Scenarios
帮助我协调对我母亲的护理
我和兄弟姐妹需要分担护理工作
组织生病家人的照护
建立照护时间表
Install
npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill caregiver-coordination -g -y
SKILL.md
Frontmatter
{
"name": "caregiver-coordination",
"description": "Organize care for an aging or ill family member across multiple helpers — the shared care map, a fair rotation with backup rules, the information binder, and family-meeting agendas that prevent the one-sibling-does-everything spiral. Use when asked help me coordinate care for my mom, my siblings and I need to split caregiving, organize care for a sick family member, or set up a care schedule. Produces the care map of needs and coverage, the rotation schedule with escalation rules, the binder outline, and the family meeting agenda."
}
Caregiver Coordination Skill
Family caregiving fails in a predictable shape: the nearest sibling absorbs everything by default, information lives in one exhausted head, and resentment does the scheduling. This skill makes the work visible before dividing it — a care map of what actually needs doing and when — then builds a rotation that survives real life (backups, escalation rules, no martyrs) and a binder so that any authorized helper can act without phoning the exhausted one.
What This Skill Produces
- The care map — every recurring need (medical, daily living, household, financial-admin, companionship) with frequency and skill level required
- The rotation — who covers what, with explicit backup rules and a definition of "covered"
- The binder outline — medications, providers, insurance, legal documents, routines — the transferable brain
- The family meeting agenda — a repeatable structure that surfaces load honestly and renegotiates before resentment does
Required Inputs
Ask for these if not provided:
- The care recipient's situation — needs by category, what they can still do (preserving autonomy is part of care), what's changing
- The helper roster — family, friends, paid help; each person's distance, capacity, and constraints stated honestly
- What exists today — who's doing what now (the invisible-load audit), any legal groundwork (POA, healthcare proxy) — existing or missing
- The friction — what fight keeps happening; the schedule must route around known fault lines
Framework: The Fair-Division Rules
- Map before dividing: list every task with frequency and required skill. Invisible work (appointment scheduling, insurance calls, being the worrier-in-chief) goes on the map — it's usually the heaviest load and the least counted.
- Match by capacity, not geography alone: the far sibling can own insurance calls, bill-pay, appointment scheduling, and nightly check-in calls. "I'm not local" removes some tasks, not all — the map makes that concrete.
- Backup is part of the assignment: every slot has a named backup and a swap protocol. A rotation without backups is the nearest sibling's schedule with extra steps.
- Escalation rules in writing: what symptoms/events trigger a call to whom, in what order, including 911-first conditions — decided calmly, not at 2am.
- Renegotiate on a clock: care needs ratchet upward; the meeting cadence (monthly, plus after any hospitalization) re-runs the map so the schedule tracks reality, and the when-home-care-isn't-enough conversation is scheduled before it's an emergency.
Output Format
Care Plan: [name]
Care Map
| Need | Frequency | Skill needed | Currently done by | Visible before? |
|---|
Rotation
| Slot/Task | Owner | Backup | "Covered" means |
|---|---|---|---|
| Swap protocol: [how] · Escalation: [symptom → who → then who; 911-first list] |
The Binder
[Sections: medications+pharmacy · providers+portals · insurance/ID · legal docs+locations · daily routines+preferences · this rotation]
Family Meeting Agenda ([cadence])
- Load check — each person, honestly 2. What changed in [name]'s needs 3. Re-run the map 4. The next threshold and its trigger
Legal instruments (POA, healthcare proxy) and benefits eligibility are jurisdiction-specific — verify with an elder-law attorney or local agency; this skill organizes the family's work around them.
Quality Checks
- Invisible/administrative work appears on the map with a frequency
- Every rotation slot has a named backup
- Escalation rules are written and ordered, with 911-first conditions
- Remote helpers carry real load, itemized
- The renegotiation cadence and the next-threshold conversation are scheduled
Anti-Patterns
- Do not divide tasks before mapping them — invisible load stays invisible and the spiral continues
- Do not let "closest = default owner" stand without naming it as a choice being made
- Do not build a rotation with no backups — it's a single point of failure wearing a schedule
- Do not plan around the care recipient — their preferences and remaining autonomy are inputs, not obstacles
- Do not give legal or medical advice — organize around professionals, and route those questions to them
Version History
- 54fad50 Current 2026-07-19 13:03
